Presentation Skills Every Leader Needs to Influence
Great leaders are not just responsible for making decisions. They are responsible for communicating those decisions in a way that inspires action, creates clarity, and builds trust. That is why presentation skills are no longer optional for leaders. They are essential.
Every day, leaders are presenting. It may not always happen on a stage with a microphone and spotlight, but presentations happen constantly. Team meetings, client conversations, sales calls, training sessions, boardroom updates, and one-on-one coaching conversations all require the ability to communicate effectively.
The challenge is that many leaders confuse presenting with simply delivering information. But strong presentation skills are not about dumping information on people. They are about helping people connect with the message, understand the value, and remember what matters most.
The leaders who influence people best know how to communicate in a way that feels personal, engaging, and human.
Great Presentation Skills Start with Valuing the Audience
One of the biggest mistakes presenters make is focusing too much on what they want to say instead of what the audience actually needs to hear.
Strong presentation skills begin with understanding the people in front of you. Before building a presentation, effective leaders ask questions like:
What challenges is this audience facing?
What matters most to them?
What problem am I helping solve?
What is the one thing they absolutely need to remember?
When audiences feel like a presentation was built for them instead of delivered at them, engagement immediately increases.
People do not want to feel trapped in a lecture. They want to feel understood. They want to know the speaker values their time and respects their attention.
That is why the best presenters focus less on impressing audiences and more on serving them.
Ironically, the moment a presenter stops trying to sound impressive is often the moment they become far more influential.
Presentation Skills Improve When You Speak One-on-One
Many people become nervous during presentations because they feel like they are “performing” for a crowd. That pressure causes presenters to sound robotic, overly scripted, or unnatural.
One of the most effective presentation skills a leader can develop is learning how to speak to a room the same way they would speak to one person.
Great presenters make large audiences feel small. They create conversations instead of performances.
They use eye contact naturally. Their tone feels conversational. Their examples feel relatable. And instead of sounding rehearsed, they sound authentic.
This approach helps important points land more effectively because people feel personally connected to the message.
Think about the presentations you remember most. Chances are, the speaker made you feel like they were talking directly to you rather than broadcasting generic information to a crowd.
Connection creates engagement. Engagement creates retention. And retention creates influence.
Stop Relying on Excessive Bullet Points
One of the fastest ways to lose an audience is to overload them with slides full of bullet points. The old saying that “bullets kill” is true when giving presenations.
Unfortunately, many presentations turn into reading exercises instead of communication experiences. Audiences are forced to choose between reading crowded slides or listening to the presenter, and most end up doing neither effectively.
Strong presentation skills require simplification.
Slides should support the speaker, not replace the speaker. The best presenters use visuals, short phrases, key ideas, and memorable takeaways rather than overwhelming people with paragraphs of information.
If every slide looks like a legal contract, your audience will mentally check out before slide three.
A good presentation is not measured by how much information you can fit onto a screen. It is measured by how clearly people understand and remember the message afterward.
Sometimes less information creates far more impact.
Humor Makes Presentations More Engaging
One of the most overlooked presentation skills is the ability to create comfort and energy in a room. Humor is one of the best ways to accomplish that.
This does not mean leaders need to become comedians or force awkward jokes into presentations. In fact, forced humor usually creates more tension than connection.
The best humor in presentations comes naturally through relatable observations, personal experiences, or light self-awareness.
A simple funny moment can instantly relax an audience and make a presenter feel more approachable. It also helps break up tension and maintain attention.
Because the reality is, nobody enjoys listening to a presentation that sounds like it was generated by an instruction manual.
People connect with speakers who feel human.
Even small moments of humor can make presentations more memorable because audiences associate positive emotions with the speaker and the message.
Presentation Skills Are Really About Connection
At the core of every strong presentation skill is one thing: connection.
The best presenters know how to make audiences feel valued, engaged, and involved. They simplify instead of overwhelm. They communicate naturally instead of sounding scripted. They use humor to create warmth and connection.
Most importantly, they understand that presentations are not about showing how much the speaker knows. They are about helping the audience walk away with clarity, confidence, and connection.
Because people rarely remember every slide from a presentation.
But they always remember how the presenter made them feel.
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How To Build Work Relationships
Today with remote workers, the workforce changing over in record numbers, and engagement extremely low, we need to learn how to build networks in our own companies. Different parts of the organization are located all over the world. We need to know and build relationships with other parts of our organization while we are not able to do that face to face.
How do we as managers of new individuals, new employees, new teammates grow relationships with others inside of the organization. It’s complicated, and will take time, but it can be done if we are intentional about it.
This is the time that we have to put on the sales hat and think about how we grow influence and trust with others. That is right, we need to think like sales professionals. No not an evil sales person that does not care about customers and just cares about golf and selling products. The good sales professional is the one that cares about understanding those they interact with. They want to serve those they interact with so that they can move forward.
These sales professionals actually focus on the relationship and how they will be able to help their customers win and be the Hero of their own story. That is the type of hat I am saying we need to wear.
The first part in building relationships is to learn and understand the individual that we are coming in contact with. We want them to understand that they are heard and known. We do not want to treat them as a commodity, but as an individual. Someone that matters.
That’s what we all want right? We want to know that we are known, heard, and that we matter.
We need to focus on others in the same way. We have needs, but we really need to work for them an serve them if we want to obtain our better way forward. We need to take the focus off ourselves and focus on learning about them.
See the others we work with have situations, issues, and ramifications that if not fixed will result in poor performance, disengagement, apathy, and likely them leaving for another job. If we can create a culture of helping each other and learning about each other.
When others know that we are not just trying to use them then we will build trust and out of that we get relationships. That is right we build trust and relationships when we build influence with others. Businesses move on trust and we need this if we are going to build relationships.
Today in business we need to make sure that we are going out of our way to build relationships if we are going to move forward in business. If we do this, that we will have a better quality of life as well as success in business.
Focus on putting on that sales hat and building relationships and so we can succeed with others.
“Businesses wonder why it is still hard to be thought of as the brand of choice with customers. How can our business make more profitable transactions and stay out of the commodity battle with low profits? I equip your sales team to walk with the customer through the five buying decisions, and in the correct order to generate explosive revenues with greater profits!”
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1lWIVasmkFsoYL4h0AqIZgH6LC3qaw_gI/view?usp=sharing – client profile sheet
https://www.amazon.com/Sales-Process-Uncovered-Success-Influence/dp/0578421518 - Book
The First Question to Ask
Good morning everyone. Last week we discussed the three questions that customers ask when the meet with us on every interaction. If you missed it go back and read it as it will help you with this week’s post. it only takes three minutes to read.
The first question that we ask ourselves subconsciously when we interact with another person is “Do I like you?” Our brains are trying to figure out if this person standing in front of us is a threat or a potential ally. Should we stay, or run like…
Physically our bodies will change posture depending on how this question is answered. Our posture will literally change as much as leaning in to leaning back depending on engagement and trust. This is why sales professionals have been taught to always mirror your customer’s posture.
Did you know that depending on if you are male or female you tend to want to stand in different postures when interacting? Women prefer to stand at 90 degree angles to men when they are interacting in the personal space. They naturally want to keep a guard up to not feel vulnerable. Men typically like to stand face to face total body facing their counterpart.
Are you starting to see how this might be a problem getting someone to like you if you do something small like use the incorrect stance?
Here is something else that will impact the way someone answers that question. The color you wear on your clothing can also impact how you are judged. That’s right the color we wear actually has an impact on how others perceive us. We could start the discussion off on the wrong foot just by color. In Robert Cialdini’s book “Influence” he breaks down the colors and what they mean. It is a must read if you are working to sales! To make it easier for you, I tend to wear light blue and white shirts when I meet someone for the first time because those colors are associated with “Trust.” They are also calming colors. I want the customer calm and feeling like I am a trustworthy advocate for them.
I make sure to wear the right color tones for the meeting that I am about to have. The reason is I need the customer to feel at ease while meeting with me. They will be more relaxed and willing to hear me while we are discussing a topic. I also pay close attention to their posture as what I have learned is that 93% of communication is actually non-verbal.
Here are some other factors that can affect the first impression:
Scents you wear, voice tonality, pace of speech, jewelry, etc.
The old saying you only get one chance to make a first impression still is true today. Making sure we are paying attention to the person standing in front of us will help us greatly generate trust.
Have a great week!
“Businesses wonder why it is still hard to be thought of as the brand of choice with customers. How can our business make more profitable transactions and stay out of the commodity battle with low profits? I equip your sales team to walk with the customer through the five buying decisions, and in the correct order to generate explosive revenues with greater profits!”
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1lWIVasmkFsoYL4h0AqIZgH6LC3qaw_gI/view?usp=sharing – client profile sheet
https://www.amazon.com/Sales-Process-Uncovered-Success-Influence/dp/0578421518 - Book
https://kevinsidebottom.kartra.com/page/5AF12 - Sales Process Uncovered Online Training
https://kevinsidebottom.kartra.com/page/68N10 - Trustworthy Online Training