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Beyond the Sale: Goal Setting That Turns Transactions Into Partnerships

As the year winds down, most sales professionals are busy planning their next set of targets, more calls, more meetings, more revenue.  But what if this December, you set goals that don’t just fill the pipeline… but fill the relationship?

The top 1% of sales professionals are not focused on closing more deals.  They’re focused on opening more relationships, the kind that create loyalty, advocacy, and long-term growth.

This is the mindset shift that separates the transactional salesperson from the trusted advisor.
And it starts by redefining what success looks like in your sales process.

When you view every customer interaction through the lens of “how can I make this person’s life better?”, you instantly move from being a vendor to being a partner.  Instead of asking, “Did I close them?” start asking, “Did I earn their trust?”


At your next team meeting, replace your closing metrics with relationship metrics.
Track things like:

·       Referrals earned

·       Repeat customers

·       Personal check-ins made post-sale

Because influence isn’t measured in conversions, it’s measured in conversations.

Joey Coleman reminds us that the real work begins after the sale.  If you don’t design the post-sale experience intentionally, you leave loyalty to chance.

Here’s a framework for 2026 goal setting:
Create experience goals alongside your revenue goals.

For example:

·       Within 7 days post-sale: Send a personalized thank-you message or video.

·       Within 30 days: Check in to ensure the customer feels supported and satisfied.

·       Within 90 days: Surprise them with a “you made the right decision” touchpoint—something small but meaningful.

This isn’t just retention, it is reassurance, and reassurance builds long-term influence.

People don’t buy from the best most polished salesperson, they buy from the person who makes them feel like their story matters.  That they matter, and that their a key story to tell.

Influence isn’t about authority. It’s about empathy, clarity, and consistency. When you help your customer win, they’ll make sure you win too.

Ask yourself before every goal you set:

“Does this goal help my customer look and feel like the hero of their story?”

If the answer is yes, you’re no longer selling, you’re leading.  And that’s the ultimate differentiator.

Before setting new goals for next year, take 30 minutes this month to review your customer relationships:

·       Which ones feel strong enough to last years, not months?

·       Which customers trust you enough to recommend you without hesitation?

·       Where can you add one small gesture to turn satisfaction into advocacy?

When you set goals that elevate the relationship instead of just the result, you move beyond the sale, and into real influence.

In the end, it’s not about how many deals you close.  It’s about how many partnerships you open.

See you in 2026!

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